Esther’s Courage and Request, Haman’s Pride and Complaints

(Encouraged reading: Esther 5)

v. 1- 8 Esther’s Courage and Request

     “When the time appointed for their fast was finished she lost no time…when the impression of her devotions were fresh upon her spirit, she addressed the king.” (Matthew Henry commentary) The king granted her favor when she appeared in his court and asked what she desired. Esther could have made her plea then, especially since he offered up to half his kingdom, however, she had what very few in this world possess, patience. She asked the king and Haman to attend a banquet. There, the king inquired again about her desire. Esther petitioned they attend one more banquet the next day; they agreed.

v. 9-14 Haman’s Pride and Complaints 

     Haman hurried home, eager to share all that happened. He raved how he and the king were the only ones invited by the queen. He boasted in all he had attained. But then, he angrily complained about Mordecai’s resolve and resistance to not worship him. His wife suggested if Mordecai bothered him so, then he should have the king kill him. Delighted, Haman prepared for the execution and banquet.

Application:

     When at a crossroad our choices often fall on one of two paths. The first being rash and doing things spur of the moment, “following our hearts”, and acting on emotion. Haman was rash; Haman acted before taking time to think, and that cost him greatly. The other option is how Esther responded: patiently, humbly, and wise. Girls are often led by emotion, after all, doesn’t “following your heart” sound romantic and profound? But what God values is patience; in waiting God can reveal Himself and His plans for us more fully. Ask yourself, “Am I emotion-led or Spirit-led when it comes to making decisions?”

Prayer:

     Lord, like Esther we want to obey Your leading. It may be scary and the outcome we play out in our mind can seem to be working against us, however, help us to do what You call us to. If we are in a season of waiting for an answer and a direction, please, give us Your favor in the waiting. Thank You for always directing us to what is best.